nikah gantung

assalamualaikum.

someone asked my opp on nikah gantung.
its actually my cousins yang tanya.

masa dia tanya tu .. iwas like.
aku takde jawapan untuk itu.
and i have no idea what is nikah gantung actually.

bila cousins aku cerita more further aku baru cam .. oh i see...

pastu dia kata ramai students involved dalam nikah gantung ni.

haha. aku cam... kiddin me?

okay so pendapat aku eh?
Bagi aku, its not wrong and totally worth it.

maybe someone akan cakap still students, banyak benda nak settle or under jagaan parents or so whatever.

tapi bagi aku , kalau one person tu mmg dah srsly nak into mariatal. why not kan?
as long dia bertanggungjawab.

aku rasa mentally barat yang macam.. finish ur studies first and get a job, and beli rumah and kumpul harta and and and........

tapi bila kita tgok islamic perspective its actually opposite.

while islam mmg galakkan kalau dah mmg ada org nak kahwin then cepat2.
my parents pun setuju bab ni.

and bagi aku perkahwinan tu something yang Allah rdha.
as long as niat tu betul nak kahwin sebba apa. and yeah thats it!
niat tu. sebab apa?
kalau sebab Allah, yes Allah akan mudahkan.

bagi aku lebih better nikah gantung dari couple. nanti dah ada duit then buat lahhh big event (if u want)

tapi simple lagi Allah suka ;)

and one more cousins aku tanya opp aku on lelaki yang terus jumpa parents instead of askin' you first.

Idk about others, tapi bagi aku this kind of guy totally gentle.

entahlah. aku suka org yg straight to the point just cakap je terus.
kalau jumpa parents and asks for hand then lagi great.

berani kan. bukan senang weh. I know it. tapi parents aku okay je. dia cam... lagi suka kalau lelaki tu terus jumpa.

TAPI.

kalau ada someone yang mengaku dkat aku pun aku respect.
and aku benci nak ketawakan people's feelin'

its not aku akan terjebak dgn couple. becaus aku takkan couple.

cuma as long dia usaha towards halal. aku akan setia.
effort tu. yes effort.

so bagi aku its not worth laa kalau couple pastu entahlah.. aku rasa cam buang tu ini, pastu tahlah. budak tu tak halal lagi and kau dah belikan tu ini and jadi murah pegang sana sini. keluar sana sini. sweet sana sini. nanti lepas kahwin nak buat apa lagi? dah tak sweet.

so bagi aku kalau still insists jugak. rindu kepeke. buat cara islam lah.

buat cara Allah redha. nak jumpa boleh kot, tapi ada org ketiga la. or maybe nak ws ke? tapi elakkan lah. bahaya. :)

so bagi aku , tak salah kahwin gantung or nikah muda.
tu pendapat aku la.
as long Allah redha, Allah suka then takde apa yg salah.

buat apa nak ikut pandangan org sedangkan pandangan Allah lagi penting?
as long niat tu bcause of Allah.
everything will be fine :)

pastu banyak lagi kelebihan about this. so google. it. ni opp aku je.

aku setuju and paling penting redha Allah

Run back to Allah

Assalamualaikum
run back to Allah.
No matter whatever sins you've commited. just go back to him.
HE'LL SURELY WILL FORGIVES YOU.
Allah said in the Quran I forgot what the soorah is. But Allah have said that HE FORGIVES ALL SINS. ALL SINS.
yes, we all sinners.
we do, we made alot of mistakes
but we can start a new journey again. with new start fresh start which is tawbah.

So ive do some researched bout people who said Allah will never forgives to those who commited shrik.
means here He/she believes that other things can replaces Allah capability.
so the point here is.
Allah will never forgives if YOU DEAD AND WITH THAT SIN(SHRIK/SYIRIK)
but when you still breath and alive Yes you can make real tawbah and asks Allah forgiveness
Allah will SURELY forgives you.
And Allah can even changes those BIG SIN that you've commited to BIG DEEDS. so? what you waiting for?
while youre still alive. run back to him.
Dont you believes that Allah mercy ARE THE GREATEST? ALLAH LOVES TO THOSE WHO REPENTS.
AND THIS ARTICLES ITSELF ARE SHOUTOUT FOR YOU GUYS WHO NOW READ THIS TO RUN BACK TO ALLAH.
BECAUSE GUYS YOU CANT EVEN READ THIS IF ALLAH DONT ALLOWED YOU TO.
EVEN A SINGLE LEAF THAT FALL DOWN TO THE EARTH IS BEACUSE ALLAH HAVE WRITTEN IT. AND BECAUSE OF THE WILL OF ALLAH.
SO CAN YOU REALIZES THAT ALLAH CHOOSE YOU? RUN BACK. RUN BACK TO HIM :).
HE USES ME AS A MEAN TO WRITE THIS FOR YOU.
how sweet Allah is? :)
goodluck.

experiencessssss

calamaties, tribulations , test and test. hardship.

sometimes Allah want us to see.
What is like to feel helpless.
like when no ones couldnt hear you
or be there for you. comfort you and listens to you.
.
.
And with hardship. You finally knew it. How is it like to feel when nobodysss there.
to...
help,cure,listens and comfort you.

So now, you go to Allah.
wondering if HE can fill you up
Suddenly you get surprised with the results.

That 'emptiness' that you longing for so long is now have been filled.
now
you feel comfort a bit.
and...
when all the hardships gone
you start to forget who is the one that take it away.
You think that it is your effort.

and suddenly you forgetten that you've prayed to Allah.
and asked. to removes those calamaties.
so you forget HIM
again.
YOU FEEL MESS UP AGAIN THIS TIME.
its like.. you cant even focus in ur life.
so you try to find those 'fill' and perhaps it could fill you again, like before.

searching. and searching.
all the hardship is gone but those heart is like... yearning for something.

and you try to fill that up with music, people and worldly materials.
perhaps it will be the cure.
And yes, it can fill you up.
you finally relief.
But when the night comes..
you all alone.
you put on ur music again. perhaps it could fill that emptiness or that 'lonely' moments.
perhaps some hardcore music could help. or any sentimental music to make ur mind relax.
.
.
and finally your phones just dead.
now what?
you all alone in ur world
feeling empty. feeling lost.
that music couldnt helps you anymore
It just gone.
so you go to people. to fill you up.
or cheer you up.
finally they gone. and you all alone again.
and you go to places that maybe could cure those disease
and suddenly those places just gone with disaster.
and now you have nothing. nothing to fill you up
And now you return to Allah.
Allah , fill me up please , Im just lost.
cant help myself.
And Allah take away your sight and your hearing.

take away your fam too.
You was like. what is this? Dont you love me Allah?
Allah.. all I ask is to fill me up.
thats all. but why you took that away.
you questioned it. again and again.
But still, you couldnt find those answers.
so you cry and beg to Allah.
Allah please return my sight and hearing.
But still no answers

You dont give up. theres something in ur hearts that forces you to ask Allah more and more.
so you do that.
Ask Allah. again and again.

month after month.
year after year.

begging.
to Allah.
crying at the middle of night.
every seconds, every minutes.
Allah.. please. return it.
thats all you ask every seconds.
Your day cant be passes without you asking Allah.
And now you realizes that.
woo wait a minute. where all those emptiness? I mean that emptiness that I ask Allah to fill me up before?It just gone.

And you keep on thinking. what is happening here.
And you realizes that its because you remember Allah so much until you cant even feel that emptiness in ur heart.
It just fill you up.
even with those simplest dua.

Now you feel content. you feel bless with hardships that come to you.
And you found those answers.
Allah, without you im empty and i couldnt breath :).

Anything.

Im bored to death right now.

And when im bored to death ill miss people and i hate it cz i hate miss people.

Hahahahahàhaaahaha.

What should i do?

How do i kno im bored?

The moment when you type this;

Asdfghjklqwertyuiopzxcvbnm

And click that. And youll know that you actually bored to death 😂